Loneliness is one of the most common causes of depression among students. Being at university might be one of the most social times of your life, meeting hundreds if not thousands of new people over your degree. You are possibly living with a whole group of people and spending your seminars or lectures with your peers. But, often, the times when we are surrounded by people can also be the loneliest of times if we are not feeling connected with those around us. If you have come to the UK from another country, or even come to London from somewhere else in the UK, you might be noticing the cultural differences between yourself and those around you and feel a little distant. So, if you’re feeling isolated or like you aren’t part of the group, try to remember that while it might seem that everyone is making friends and having a great time, we all are in the habit of putting our best selves forward. Most people aren’t openly honest about how they feel until you get to know each other properly. Take your time, to get to know just a couple of like-minded people and you will find that friendships can begin to flourish naturally from there.
If you’re feeling a little homesick, this is only natural. You might be in a brand-new city or even a new country and miss the comforts from back home. Missing family and friends from home is normal, and generally, it just takes a little time to pass. Yes It can naturally affect your mental health and make depression more likely, so just be aware that your time at university is relatively quick, and while you might be missing home right now, you will soon settle into your new life and these feelings will fade. And before you know it, you will be seeing your family again and be feeling much more positive about life at university.